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Showing posts with label Choosing the right toy; Age-appropriate Toys. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Choosing the right toy; Age-appropriate Toys. Show all posts

What makes educational games really valuable?

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When little Johnny’s mother points to a picture and states that the elephant is ‘big’ and the mouse is ‘small’ it doesn’t mean much to the little guy.

Later, as the two of them are packing toys away, he tries to fit his big inflatable beach ball into the smaller sized toy basket with no success. His mom adds meaning to his experience by saying” Oh dear! The ball is BIG and the opening is SMALL. Let’s pack all the BIG toys here next to the wall and put the SMALLER things in the toy hamper.”

That evening, when she points to the picture in the book again, Johnny’s eyes light up when she talks about the “big” elephant and the “small” mouse. On their way to the bathroom Mom says: “Let’s make BIG steps like the elephant, and now make SMALL steps like the mouse” and the concept of big and small is slowly but surely starting to become more real to him!

Little children live and learn in a physical world.
Abstract ideas don’t mean much when it comes to little ones. They need real life experiences that clarify those abstract ideas for them. As in little Johnny’s case, the most meaningful real-life experiences can be divided into 3 categories: those that involve a child’s body (kinaesthetic experience), his hands (handling 3-dimensional objects) and his eyes (looking at 2-dimensional images printed on paper).

In other words, the best way to teach the concept of the ‘number three’ to a 3 year old will be to play three kinds of games with him:

1) Get his body moving: “Let’s jump in the air THREE times. Now let’s count while we walk up these THREE steps: “One, Two, THREE!”

2) Let his hands handle 3D objects: “Let’s build a tower with THREE blocks.”

3) Get those eyes looking at 2D images: “Look at the DICE – how many dots do you count? One, Two, THREE! How many ducks are in this picture?”

Playing all of these kinds of games make all the difference.
In fact, this is the basis of much of the success of the Practica Program. Practica Parents will notice, as they read through the hundreds of activities listed for the various age groups in the Parents’ Guide that each and every one of the activities falls into one of the key three categories described above.

The beauty of the Practica Program is that all the work has been done for the parent and it’s handy to have all the specialised toys and printed material readily at hand.

Games that you can create yourself:
If you don’t own a Practica Program, there is no need to feel left out. It will take some time, but you can improvise and put together your own list of helpful activities.

Start off by selecting an age-appropriate concept that you’d like to introduce to your child. Then think of a game that involves body movement, another one that involves his hands, and another one that involves an image on a flat surface.

For example, say you’d like to introduce your child to the concept of a triangle:

Games in Category 1 (using body movement):
• Draw a large triangle with chalk on the pavement in your driveway, or use masking tape to tape a triangle onto the floor in your child’s room. Place a little toy at every corner and say, “Let’s walk on the triangle to get to the toys. Now let’s put all three the bears inside the triangle.”

• Get down on the floor and say, “Let’s see if you and I and your dad can use our bodies to lie down on the floor in the shape of a triangle!”

Games in Category 2 (hands handling 3D objects):
• Let’s use our fingers to make a triangle!”

• “I have placed cardboard shapes in a bag – put your hand in there and see if you can find me a triangle!”

Games in Category 3 (eyes looking at 2D images):
• “Let’s draw triangles on brown paper and then use it to wrap Daddy’s present. He loves triangles!”

• “Help me to use these match sticks to build lots of triangles on the coffee table.”

• “I’m busy drawing a row of houses on the blackboard. Let me show you how you can draw triangles to make a roof for each of them.”

Why go to all the trouble?
Many of us know what it feels like to work on an essay for weeks to get a mark of 60%, while the product that another child has whipped together in 30 minutes during break time ends up being published in the local newspaper!

And even more of us remember sitting in a Maths class, with hair rising in the back of our necks as we struggle to figure out which of whole series of mathematical rules should be applied to make some sense out of a question in a geometry test. And there was always that one kid who could give the sketch one look and immediately respond with a solution to the problem, almost instinctively. Well, that’s the kind of insight that we’re trying to develop in our children by introducing them to all kinds of concepts in a more creative and “real” way at an early age.

We want them to develop such a deeply ingrained understanding of the world around them at an early age that their understanding and insights will be almost sub-conscious by the time their old enough to make their mark in life! Almost like a golf player that practices his golf swing correctly from the start so that the ends up with the right ‘muscle-memory’ later on in his career.

We hope that this knowledge opens up a whole new world of possibilities for you and your child. It’s so much more rewarding to invest time and energy into doing things that really make a difference!

The Practica Team
Parents who know better… do better.

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Choosing the best toys this Festive Season!

Image: Loren Stow
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It can be really stressful at this time of year, as you walk into your local mall, armed with your list of who you need to buy presents for... And even though many people have cut back on adult presents, there is always a focus on buying presents for the children in your family or your circle of friends over the Festive Season.

I remember last Christmas, when my mother asked what she should buy for my son, and I wasn't really even sure.  In fact, I would often buy toys that I
liked that wouldn't even win more than a casual glance from my little boy...

What I learned quickly was that I needed to understand what my son would be interested in, based on his developmental level - otherwise I was just wasting my hard-earned money!

So, I believe that if I've been confused at times, then there must be other parents out there who don't have the foggiest clue as to what to buy for the little people in their lives.  So they opt for something flashy, maybe with batteries, some lights and tune or two... a kind of stab in the dark... only to be disappointed with their little ones hardly pay the toy any attention.

In addition to choosing the right toy for the right age, we can sometimes become sidetracked by the sheer magnitude of the Festive Season and forget the real meaning of toys when it comes to children. Play is one of the most important areas of development, shaping the way in which our little ones explore, pretend and share, to name but a few of the skills they acquire from the toys which they are given.


Santa's Toy List:


0-9 months



* Wind chimes make beautiful sounds to listen to.


* Mobiles to look at, especially those with bright high contrasting.


* Cuddly toys – woolly, furry, cloth, plastic, even a combination of different textures.


* Music boxes and CD’s of simple nursery rhymes, classical music, and children’s songs (check music boxes to make sure they’re not off key).


* Rattles, shakers and teethers to pick up, grasp and shake.


* A non-glass mirror.


* An activity gym with dangling objects.


* Plastic squeeze toys.


* Vinyl or cloth books.


* Roly-poly toys (round-bottomed figures that can be pushed over, but bounce back up).




9-12 months


* A door swing.


* Nesting blocks, stacking toys, and stacking rings.


* Push-me-pull-me toys.


* Toys with large popping beads / toys with pop-up parts that are easily activated by pushing a button (Children at this stage like to make things happen – they like to push a button and hear a song, or have a bird pop out of the window etc.)


* Bath toys, including toys that float and bubbles to pop.


* Board books.


* Balls (they now prefer neon colours).


* Musical instruments (drums, shakers, tambourines, xylophones).


* Take-apart toys with large pieces.


* A rag doll with embroidered eyes.




12-18 months


* Walking toys like a walker with a handle for pushing, shopping carts, baby carriages etc.


* Toys large enough to sit on like scooters or animal hoppers, and toys to sit in like a play tent.


* Soft dolls and stuffed animals.


* Balls of all sizes, including a soccer-sized ball and a larger inflatable beach ball.


* Music to listen to, participate in and move to.


* A shape sorter (the drop-in kind).


* Wooden blocks.


* A toy broom, dust pan and cloth.


* Medium sized toy truck and car.


* Nursery rhyme and picture books (go for a book with simple pictures and one sentence on a page).




18-24 months


* Dress-up and pretend items – hats, mom and dad’s old shoes, plastic houses and people, dolls, cars and trucks.


* Mallet and peg toys (pounding bench with large pegs in holes that are ‘hammered’ with a mallet made of wood or rubber).


* Wood, cloth and plastic animals of a good size.


* Toy phone.


* Indoor and outdoor swing.


* Sand box, sand toys, digging toys and a bucket.


* Balls and bean bags of all sizes.


* Simple puzzles (with 2-4 large sized pieces).


* Crayons and large sheets of paper.


* Music and children’s books with lots of rhyme and repetition.



2 years


* Housekeeping equipment (broom, toy dishes, tea-sets, cooking utensils, dolls and dolls equipment, washing and ironing toys, child-size table and chairs).


* Egg beater (held with one hand and turned with the other – not battery operated).


* Inflatable pool and water-play toys, and a sandpit and sand-play toys.


* Cars, large tipping truck and train (train with tracks from 2½ years).


* Low rocking horse or a tricycle (most use pedals from 2½ years).


* Play work bench with tools (kiddie’s screwdriver and wooden hammer).


* Small playground equipment for sliding and climbing.


* CD’s to listen to and simple musical toys like a drum, chimes or cymbal.


* Baby construction toys with large pieces to stack and or fit together / laces and beads to string / 6-8 piece inlay puzzles to put together.


* Children’s books with lots of rhyme and repetition.



3 years
All of the 2 year old favourites plus:


* Craft equipment (finger paint, beginner’s brush, paper, poster paints, glue, blunt scissors and construction paper; but no fill-in, tracing or paint-by-number art).


* Play dough with cookie cutters and rolling pin etc.


* Imaginary settings e.g. a town or castle with plastic figurines of humans and animals (not too small in size).


* A child’s CD player or an instrument to experiment with (e.g. a xylophone that is tuned).


* Push and pull vehicles (also maybe a sled on 2 small wheels).


* Dress-up dolls (with clothes that have buttons and zips) and dress-up clothes (mom and dad’s old clothes in a trunk).


* Beginner’s board games and picture Lotto’s (matching pictures).


* Full size playground equipment.


* Story books and fairy tales (to be read to).


* Simple number and letter toys.


4 years
All of the 3 year old favourites plus:


* Puppets and puppet theatre.


* Toys that involve eye-hand coordination, e.g. shooting a play arrow at a target, darts with rounded tips, shooting at a target with a water gun, tossing bean bags into containers or onto targets.


* Make believe kits for imaginary play, e.g. nurse and doctor kit; play-store equipment; hammer, carpet tacks and wooden board for setting up a play factory; typical office equipment to set up a ‘day at work’.


* Blackboard and chalk (buy a smooth masonite door from a hardware store and paint it with blackboard paint to create a huge blackboard – every child’s dream).


* Kiddie’s gardening tools and small plants that require little care.


* A see-saw.


* Equipment like a back-pack, ‘gogga’-box and magnifying glass for nature trips.


* Dominoes, board and card games like ‘snap’.


* Construction sets with smaller pieces / construction sets that work with magnets.


* CD’s of various kinds of music (children’s, classical, etc.) and lots of story books and fairy tales (to be read to).

Note: This is the age at which fads begin, so be sure to ask what they are collecting. If they are mad for dinosaurs they may be disappointed if the toy that you buy has another theme.)




5 years
All of the 3 and 4 year old favourites plus:


* Child-sized sports equipment that involve more skill, e.g. shooting a ball through a hoop / roller skates.


* Large doll’s pram and equipment / Barbie-style dolls with clothes and furniture.


* Craft equipment including stencils / adhesive tape and paper for three-dimensional construction.


* Regular screwdriver and large screws, nuts and bolts.


* Puzzles (most enjoy 20-25 pieces, many manage 50).


* Snakes and Ladders and other simple family games.


* Shadow puppets (playing with shadows against a wall) using hand puppets or hands alone see http://www.blifaloo.com/shadow-puppets/index.php .


* Rope tying games (learning to make special knots) and string games to strengthen little fingers (for example, watch http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u98yAVyYGrI&feature=related  to see how to make a cup-and-saucer out of string).


* Lots of story books, fairy tales and books on certain themes and topics (to be read to).


* Age-appropriate computer games (limit to 1 hour per day OR 2 hours Friday afternoon and 2 hours on Saturday).




6 – 7 years
All of the 5 year old favourites plus:


* Bicycle (soon without balancing wheels) / skipping rope / hop scotch mat / hoola-hoop /ring toss / ten pin bowling set / swimming equipment / ball games with equipment and rules, e.g. croquet, cricket , etc.


* Craft equipment, including equipment for plain stitching, simple weaving and mosaics (but no pre-printed patterns for the mosaics).


* Pick-up sticks / marbles /spinning tops / kite flying.


* Tag games, blind-fold games, tree climbing and hide and seek games.


* Masks and costumes.


* Simple card games (also include some that are more advanced than snap).


* A simple camera.


* Activity books that involve writing skills and perceptual development.


* Lots of story books, fairy tales and books on certain themes and topics. Now include beginning science and history toys and books, as well as rhyme, riddle, and joke books.


* Age-appropriate computer games (limit to 1 hour per day OR 2 hours Friday afternoon and 2 hours on Saturday).



It can all become a bit overwhelming, keeping in mind the age, developmental level, the true meaning of the toy, and all without blowing our budgets right out of the water... Never fear! There are some hard and fast guidelines to choosing the perfect toys, ones that will excite and entice your kiddos over the Festive Season, while teaching them valuable skills beyond the carols and the candlelight.


Words: Loren Stow
when we know better... we do better

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